1 Corinthians 14:18-20
18 I thank God that I speak in other languages more than all of you; 19 yet in the church I would rather speak five words with my understanding, in order to teach others also, than 10,000 words in another language.
20 Brothers, don’t be childish in your thinking, but be infants in regard to evil and adult in your thinking.
Don’t be childish in wanting presents for the sole purpose of enjoying them yourself.
Don’t be a baby that begs and cries only for that which they plan to spend on their sacred little self.
Be innocent with regard to evil and mature in your desire to be selfless.
Don’t be childish.by babbling nonsense while insisting that everyone in the room look at you.
Set yourself aside.
Speak to the building up of everyone.