day no, 14,100: tiny thieves of oneness

Song of Solomon 2:15

Catch the foxes for us,

the little foxes

that spoil the vineyards,

for our vineyards are in blossom.

It is more often the little things eroding slowly than the large things blasting suddenly that spoil the fruit our marriages.

Marriages first need husbands who are committed to catching and killing even the tiniest thieves of oneness. 

Next, marriages need friends who are invited over to point out the foxes we missed or do not see for the foxes they are.