“In a healthy society, if wives are generally submissive to their own husbands, there will be a cheerful deference to the leadership of men generally, a reality to be welcomed and not resented. The end result generally will be a patriarchal society.” ― Douglas Wilson, Concise and to the Point
Patriarchy is not an evil, not even a necessary evil; it is a necessary good.
It is not a sinful system to usurp, it is a lawful system to embrace.
Reality is never on the ballot. Everyone could vote against reality and reality would still win the election. Just as one man with God is always in the majority, so the reality of God is always our reality. That is not a harsh reality, but it feels harsh to those who keep hitting their head on it.